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Activism in Adoption is organized around three key concepts:

Race, Relationships, and Resilience;

centering birthparent and adoptee voices,

which bring nuance and detail that can only come from lived experience.


When we listen to the individuals whose lives are most impacted by adoption, when we allow ourselves to sit in uncomfortable spaces, we learn and we grow, we begin to understand the ethics, and sometimes the lack of ethics in adoption, and we become the change-makers - improving outcomes in adoption for our children, for ourselves as adoptive parents and adoption professionals, and for the birthparents who chose to place their children for adoption.

We are Stronger Together.


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How do I best support my LGBTQIA+ adopted family member? 
What do young Black adopted men need from their support systems?
How can adoptive parents build loving, child-centered relationships with birthmothers? 
What role can adoptive mothers play in shifting the narrative and making adoption a more ethical practice? 

Over the past 6 years, we have brought in dozens of adoption experts – predominantly adopted people and birthparents – to discuss these topics and more. We know that centering the voices and needs of adopted people and birthparents is the first step to improving outcomes for every member of the adoption constellation. The reaction from our audience has been overwhelmingly positive, but the one question people have had is this:What if I just want to watch one or two videos that precisely target what I am experiencing right now?

We heard you, and now you can do just that.

Nothing is changing about our live talks, but starting now, every talk recorded is available on demand, letting you build the exact adoption education you need, exactly when you need it. We have always maintained that, since adoption is for a lifetime, adoption education needs to be, too, and now you can match the adoption education you need right now to an expert, in a talk that includes audience questions from people just like you. 

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    "The Birthparent Support Alliance is one of the most proactive groups I’ve been a part of in the adoption field. Their recent speaker series made a point to honor all those connected to adoption. As an adoptee, I pay very close attention to how others honor adoptees, like myself, as well as birth parents. The Birthparent Support Alliance makes sure these two very important voices are heard and that is extremely important to me."

    Kevin Hofmann, Activism in Adoption Speaker

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This month's Activism in Adoption speaker is writer, musician, filmmaker, and birthmother Kate Stapleton, who is joining us to discuss her award winning film, The Inner Sea. We sat down with Kate this week to talk about what prompted her to create this documentary, the process of being a first-time filmmaker, and to get a little advice on how to pursue an abundantly creative life.

We are joined in conversation with Dr. Adam Anthony, the founder of EmpowerMENt, to talk about how the identity, emotional, and belonging needs of adopted boys often remain unseen when adoption is framed primarily as a successful placement, and what parents can do to help foster a sense of belonging in their sons.

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